7. How would you spend a perfect Saturday in East Lyme?
The perfect Saturday for me would fall after the first Friday of the month. I run musical performances at the planetarium at the high school every first Friday. I get home unload my car and go to sleep. As soon as I wake up on Saturday morning and put my gear away. I start planning for next month’s show. I wake up early, before anyone else in the house is up. I curate the pictures I took the night before and post them online for folks to see. Then, I create the flyer for the next month’s show and start putting together the next big projection.
After a while, my family wakes up and we do breakfast. My wife goes and gets yummy stuff from Deke’s. I go for a run around my neighborhood and then eat. I have a cup of nice tea, get ready for the day, and then head out for an adventure.
Usually, my adventures involve errands at local shops, a trip to the hardware store, and dropping off/picking something up from friends. These days I spend a lot of time knocking doors and talking to people which I really like. Even when the weather isn’t so great, it’s a real treat to talk to my neighbors.
When I get hungry, I’ll knock off for a while and go to my favorite restaurant in the whole world, Taza! While I’m there, I invariably get my favorite food of all time, baba ghanoush, a sort of hummus made from eggplant. I’ve had baba ghanoush all over the place and I have to tell you no one does it better than Taza. It is just some freak coincidence that I live only a couple of miles from the best baba ghanoush served anywhere in the known universe. I really consider myself fortunate. I usually bring something back for my family to eat too.
After lunch, I’m back out into the world. There’s always something going on. Maybe it’s band rehearsal with my friends. Maybe it’s a meeting with a constituent. I don’t know what it is, but I will probably end up downtown. I will grab dessert from Dairy Queen. I like to go there because they have this liquid peanut butter stuff. I don’t know what it is or how they make it, but I love it! I just want to drink it straight from a cup like some kind of peanut butter madman. I gobble up my ice cream by the time I am at the entrance to Book Barn Downtown. I head in hoping to see one of my friends. It’s always mobbed in there and that fills my heart with joy. All these bookworms geeking out over the book they didn’t know they were looking for but now can’t live without. I look through the sci fi section hoping a new book will turn up from one of my favorite authors. Isaac Asimov, Arthur C. Clark, Stanislaw Lem, William Gibson. If not, I’ll hit up their graphic novels and comics. I ALWAYS find something there. On this day, I select a copy of Watchmen by Alan Moore. It’s one of my favorites and I’ve read dozens of times, but I always buy an extra copy to give away to someone who hasn’t read it yet.
Then, I’ll walk along the street and make my way to Tumbleweeds. Upon entering, I say, hi, to Tara, the shopkeeper and swear to myself that I’m only going to look. Of course, they’ll have something I love and can’t find anywhere else. They never let me down! Somehow, they always have Sade records or old jazz discs I love so naturally I spend too much money there and leave feeling lucky.
The day is getting long and by now I’m probably tired of being out in the world, so I’ll head home. I go into my basement studio and make some music for a while. Then, emerging with a fresh new jam, my family and I plan out our evening together. That generally involves a trip to Zavala’s and watching a few episodes of Modern Family together afterwards. We talk about what we have planned for tomorrow and then sit down to read, write, draw, listen to music, etc. I hang out with my cats for a while or work on some project I have going.
Before long, my wife reminds that, if I don’t stop working on a project at least an hour before bed, I won’t get to sleep. I thank her for reminding me as she does almost every day. The kids head off to bed. My wife and I do the same. The cats join us and lights go out in the Deeble house after another perfect Saturday. A beautiful full moon hangs in the sky over East Lyme.
8. What business in East Lyme do you think everyone should know about, and why?
That’s an easy one. Everyone should know about the Stars to STEM Regional Planetarium up at the high school and visit it as often as possible. They do cool, traditional programming on the weekends and a musical show the first Friday of each month from 7:00-9:00. I love it there.
Also, when it came time to get married and start a family, my wife and I looked around southeastern Connecticut. We chose East Lyme because of the Book Barn. It’s just a wonderful, magical place. I can’t overstate how important it is to me and my family.
The Barn for Artistic Youth has also been fabulous for my kids.
And, of course, Taza is also wonderful.
9. Who in East Lyme do you truly admire, past or present?
There are so many people I admire and really, I think everyday people do really admirable stuff. The world is so crazy and so hard for so many people, just seeing people carry on loving, living, working, raising their kids, caring for themselves and others is pretty amazing stuff. But I know that’s not the answer you want so I’ll pick one past and one present.
I admire East Lyme’s first-ever, democratically elected female First Selectwoman, Beth Hogan. She was a mentor and friend and helped me mature into who I am today. She was a sage and guide and touched the lives of countless people. She worked up to her dying day trying to make East Lyme a better community. Her legacy carries on through people she taught like me and my friends.
Also, I admire our current First Selectman, Dan Cunningham. Dan is just a wonderful guy. We’ve been friends for years playing music together and having crazy adventures together. He is wise, gentle, contemplative, and has an endless supply of stories that are so far out and funny, they’ll make your jaw drop. He has vision and the wherewithal to make ideas into realities. I aspire to be the sort of leader that Dan is.
10. What mascot would you assign to East Lyme?
Shelly the Scallop Shell, you know the scallop thing again?! Also, there are a lot of cheeky squirrels that live in my neighborhood. I think they’d be my second choice.